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How do you deal with your man's junk when there's no room?? |
I currently live with my boyfriend and everyday he comes home with some new "gadget" that he just bought. We live in an apartment and there is no room for anymore of this crap. He buys excess sports equipment (3 pairs of skis, 2 bikes, weights, 2 tents, 4 sleeping bags, 20 pairs of hiking/running shoes) ANd, on top of everything else, he's a packrat and he keeps old crap (his old hockey equipment, his ski jackets from the 90's, hundreds of shirts and tops from the 90's that he has not worn in decades) I want to live in a nice open space place but all of the corners are taken up with extra large tupperware boxes containing his junk. He won't even throw away old magazines. I'm getting so sick, and I have to come home to 2 bikes in the livingroom and I'm so sick of living like this. You are wasting your time, energy and love. I've been married to a pack rat for 34 years. He has only got more extreme. We have 5 acres of 'treasures'. I tried to accept and love him just the way he is, but it is still a source of major contention between us. He will never have enough, there will always be a new gadget to have. Move out. Tell him how you feel like you did right here...he can't read minds..guys are feeble minded when it comes to them wondering what we want. How you expressed yourself here is exactly how you need to tell him......you are tired of living like this. Kick the guy out after he pays this months rent, have a yard sale to get rid of his junk, find a new boyfriend. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Make it disappear a little at a time. Give him a choice, either the junk goes or you go. i dont know but let me know if you find out how to! my boyfriend is the same way... keeps everything and has all this useless stuff! |
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