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What would you do in this situation?? |
I got a call from my mother today telling me.." oh it,s not bad but your Dad wrecked his motorcycle last night." My first question was is he ok. Yeah he's ok some road rash on his face & he is pretty sore but other than that he is ok. My next question , was why didn't you call me I got this answer. Oh it was midnight & he drove the bike home he is ok. Well I am mad. I mean it is my father I would have liked to have known when it happened not 8 hours later. I also have a brother & sister who also just got called today. I mean we all only live no more than 30 minutes away. Then she proceeded to tell me what dad said had happened & how he slid down the road on his face & how his head bounced off the pavement. I cried at the thought of my dad hurting. I am glad he is ok but I would have liked to get a call when it happened. Does anyone feel the same way or am I over reacting about this. I mean he is 51 & could possibly have a concussion or a broken rib he said his side hurts real bad . ur mom shouldve called u, but i assume since ur dad was alright she didnt want to overworry u. good thing he is alright but ur mom should defenitely tlk him into seeing the doc just to be safe. I agree with your mom. If he's not seriously injured, why wake you up in the middle of the night? i would be so pissed u r not over reacting hearing what u just said makes me want to cry. i hope your dad gets better give him my best and i'm pretty sure u could use a hug so give yourself a hug from me. lots of hugs from me to u. tell him to get his butt to the hospital! I would respect that your parents are both adults and that they didn't want to call and alarm their family late at night. Its ok to be upset that your father was injured, but could you have done anything last night to help, or would you have just been upset all night and not gotten any sleep? I hope that your father is well, my dad rides too and i worry a little about him. You are over-reacting. If he was able to make it home on his own, then it was OK to have waited until it was daylight in order to call you. There was nothing you could do except worry. I do think that he should get himself check by a doctor. It is best to be overly cautious with bruises, than to risk having some type of internal damage. This is a really ironic question because i had a dream about this happening to my dad last night and i reacted the same way u r. If i were u i would be upset that i wasnt told but then again at least he is ok. I mean it could have been worse. So just be greatful that he is ok and let ur mom know that if anything similar to this type of situation happens again that u would like to be called no matter what time of the night. Im sure she will understand and next time she will call. I don't think there is a right or wrong way to react in this situation. Your mom obviously did what she felt was best for you and your siblings at the time. On the other hand you are upset because he had been in an accident and you weren't notified sooner. I understand both sides of this argument. My only advice is to go and see your parents and talk it out. Tell your dad how happy you are that he's okay. Request that should something like this happen again that they call you immediately and let you know what's going on. That's all you can really do. |
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