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Diagnose me... am i mental? if so in what way? |
of course your not a doctor, of course i should ask one i really want to hear your opinions on what you think is wrong with me. please don't cut and paste from websites, i want to hear you OPINION. i've been told it's depression by one doc and ADD by another because of ADD symptoms going back to childhood 42/male married with 2 daughters my LIFELONG habits- -hard time waking up -hard time starting or finishing projects although i am well compensated. -dilly dally all day looking at websites when i can be working -generally unmotivated to do anything from simple chores to going out past 2 years- -mother died (father died long ago) -best friend died -lost a great paying job (lack of attention, not talent) -bought a house that is the money pit -had a vasectomy that didn't work -second vasectomy did also, one of my daughters is disabled with a tumor based disease and i have seizure's due to a bike accident when i was younger. so... what's wrong with me? My personal opinion is that you are in avoidance behavior mode. You would rather not deal and avoid the problems rather than facing them and dealing with them. I do not think this is due to a disease. I think it is due to your lack of knowledge of coping techniques. You need to learn a decision-making technique. You avoid the problems and don't want to deal with them not because you are a weak person. You are doing it because you do not have the skills of how to make a decision and act upon it. In order to start a project or finish it, you need to go through a certain decision-making process. If you do not have the skills for this process, you will always have difficulties with starting and finishing things, or making solid decisions concerning money or relationships. At the time when you are waking up your consciousness tells you that the new day has began and you will be faced with new decisions to make. Your avoidance mode turns on automatically, and you would rather not to get up. When you are at work, you are required to make a decision every minute (like "I will do this first, and then move to that step, then follow up on that thing, etc); you do not have the skills for such continual decision-making process, that makes you unable to function in the work environment. Probably, at the time when you were growing up, your parents were making all the major decisions for you and were providing you with everything. So you didn't have the opportunity to acquire the necessary skills of how to function on your own. Of course you do not have the motivation. How in the world you can have it, if you simply do not know how the process works. I think your life will improve significantly if you learn the decision making skills. I have heard many people with OCD have difficulties with the decision making. Naturally, these people are perfectionists; they have very high standards for themselves, and would rather not start work on a project at all than complete it imperfectly (avoidance behavior). Anyway, that was my opinion/ depression maybe there is nothing wrong with you...!! ever though of that you silly goose!! just keep a good outlook on life and remember how luckey you are to be alive... and no thoughts of dying or suicide! You need meds. man. it sounds like you are depressed and lack motivation. you seem to have lost your will to enjoy life - i suggest going to see a psychiatrist who may put u on medication to help and also will help to talk through your issues.. sounds like adult a.d.d and bad luck.wouldn't be suprised if u were depressed because of all of the stuff that has happened You have lazy man's syndrome. Go to the gym instead of watchng tv. |
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