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Problems with kids father? |
I have 4 kids. My oldest which is a girl, is not his because I had her before I met him. But anyway he use to treat her like his own. Now he argue with her alot. She's only nine. She does nothing wrong for him to get upset. He just go off on her saying clean this up or blame her for unneccesasary things. He do have a daughter 3 years older than my daughter by another woman. He hasn't seen her in 4 years. Today, I asked him should I go ahead and buy my girl a bike because I promised her a bike if she improve in school and pass. She did!! But he say if I get her a bike then I should spend the same amoutn on the other kids which is his kids by me. The other kids get as much as she do. They are much younger, but I still get them things. Me and him cannot agree on things. I mean we argue about 6 times a day everyday and I'm fed up. Do I need to leave him. He act like he's jealous of my daughter. Someone tell me something. Nope if y'all promised her a bike for her accomplishments than you get her a bike. You don't want her to think that is how life goes. You step up and set the example for her that when you say your going to do something you do it. Don't let dad do that to her, he should be wanting to make her proud for all her hard work! There is also other ways than leaving your husband to get your point across. Try talking and listening to your husband, he is probley not even aware of how he is treating her. You should leave him if hes acting like this and being unfair to your daughter he must be an idiot You need to get yourself and your daughter far away from him. Never ever allow anyone to mistreat you or your children. If he promised the kid a bike...she needs a bike. He didn't say that if she passed, EVERYONE would get a new bike. He made that deal with her. I don't know about leaving him...but if it continues like this, I would really consider it. No man is worth so much that he should be allowed to single out one of your kids, and step all over her self esteem. get out of that house and get you and your daughter away from him. he shouldn't treat you and your daughter like that. He is being a JERK! period. Have you ask him why he treat your daughter the way he does? If she haven't give him any reason for him to get upset at her. Then he have some issues with your daughter. Which you should take the time out and talk it out with him. If this keep up things will get out of hand between the two of them. Your daughter will depend heavy on you to protect her from him and if you don't stand up for her. Your daughter will feel that you don't love her or care anything about her. She will become your problem child and that will give him more fuel to take things out on her. RED FLAG! RED FLAG! What? Did you ask him if it was ok for you to make a promise your daughter a bike if she get her grades up? Listen to yourself, you made a promise to your child if she improve her grades she will get a bike. Your daughter study hard and her grades improve. Now it your turn to come through with your part of promise. Get her that bike, she have earn it. If you break your promise about that bike, do you think she will do good next year in school? Think about it... what is the reason for the two of you can't agree on things? How long have this been going on? Was this after you had his first child, second or third child? Have you thought about goin for counsel? |
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