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Help...I am so bored with my life....!? |
I am in my 30s and married with a 4 yr old. I have no friends, only coworkers, and they all seem to have their little cliques. Motorcycle season is coming and this brings depression since hubby is out on his bike as he pleases and I am home with kid all the time. I work, come home, feed and bathe kid, play on computer or watch TV, and go to bed. I cannot see living the rest of my life like this. It sucks! I can't even squeeze in any exercise and am getting squishy! I love my kid, but dislike kids in general so play groups are out. I used to go dancing all the time, but now only once or twice a month when kid stays at grandmas, and hubby gripes about going with me, yet doesn't like me going by myself. I envy the freedom hubby has to do as he pleases, and wish I could go too, but we can't afford a babysitter. I long to be someone besides "mom" once in a while. Hubby doesnt like being stuck home with kid, but I am supposed to? Heck I wouldnt have anywhere to go even if I could! Ideas plz? me too, thats why Im on this website........ you need a holiday away from hubby and child, and if he dont like it, leave him you sound as though you are not happy where you are and what you have. you just need a better man honey. put your hubby in check....no lovin if he doesnt change things. my wife should give lessons....she got me in check Hubby needs to get a grip and take his turn with your child. He is a jerk if he leaves you alone all the time and goes off with his buddies- to do what? Tell him you want equal time. He goes out once a week and so do you with him or without him. Go to a movie, out to lunch with a coworker or an old friend, volunteer and do that once a week, go shopping even for little stuff like lipstick or slippers, take a walk to work off some squishiness, ride a bike, go to a gym, anything even the library but get out of the house and away from your kid. If your husband doesn't agree,babysit for extra income and then use it on yourself alone. And think hard about hiow selfish he is. Hope it helped a bit. Well try finding a health club that has child care and you can go work out and feel good about yourself and also make friends too if you want to. You need to do this before you drive yourself crazy. You also need to talk with your husband and tell him he needs to cut down on going motorcycle riding unless he wants to come back to a empty house a dear john letter!! Dump him and move on. Plenty of us real men who treat women right - the way women really want to be treated, instead of of being macho pigs who degrade you. If you like dancing, take a dance class with other women such as belly-dancing. You will absolutely love it and form alot of friendships with other women. There are things you can do with other women where you can bring your child with you. Or swap babysitting jobs with a neighbor so you can go out and do something fun for yourself. |
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