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How to get your neighbors to leave you alone? |
We live next to a family that has a child with A.D.D. and whatever else. He is very cute but he breaks our stuff hits our daughter and when we ask him to go home he will just say no and stay at my house. I will have to call his mom to come get him or I have had to carry him out of my house. He is 7. I don't want to be ugly to him. His parents don't seem to think I should get upset because he tares up our stuff. I should just get over it. He hits our daughter HARD with toys and I tell her not to hit him because he is so tiny. I just want them to stay in their yard and my children to stay in our yard. I have acually told them that, and their son will come in the yard and ride his bike all around. He acually ask me why my kids were out in the yard. I told him to go back to his house I got NOPE. I am so sick of it and have even thought of getting a NO TRESPASSING sign. How should I handle this. Oh , they don't give him his meds most of the time. AAAAHHHH! How do I handle this one? Help Can you put up a fence and then keep it locked? If you are just renting, then move if you can. This seems to be a no-win situation. People with disabilities, etc., have the law on their side in many ways and rightfully so, but there are a few who may take advantage of this. It sounds like these parents are doing that. There attitude seems to be that, because their son has a medical problem and is just 7, that he can do what he wants and you better leave him alone! I think if you can put a fence to keep people out that might be the best thing. If you call the cops they will probably just tell you "Oh, let the kid play!" I have a similar situation with a neighbor kid, only the child is not A.D.D., but she is a bother. She enters my house without knocking. If my 8 year old has another friend over, she gets in that person's face and tells them that she has NO FUN WHEN THEY COME OVER! If I complain to her dad, he just laughs it off. So, my next step is a privacy fence with a gate that I can lock, but we live out in the country, so I am not sure if this would work for you. Good luck...I hope you find a solution! Get a pit bull and teach him, "KILL KILL LITTLE KIDS!" get a fence or move. Just tell the parents that you are sick and you are not feeling well... stay away from them for a while and ignore them when they come over and call.. they will get the picture.. when they go to leave him at your house, just tell him in front of them, maybe some other time... good luck. JW In most situations like this the parents are responsible for the child.Talk to the neighbors and tell them the situation.If that doesn't work tell them kindly but firmly that if they do not help the situation that you will seek other measures.Talk to the local police and see what you can do if the situation worsens.The best thing you can do is be nice but firm in the situation. My child is 7 and has ADD as well and for parents that is something that you have to learn how to work with yourself! His parents have probably become immuned to what he does or says and probably thinks that you are just mad and will be OK with him coming back next time after you cool off. Have you tried eye to eye contact with him on his level. That is something that has been suggested for us to do is to get down on his level and explain why you don't want him to do the things he does. Also 123 Magic has helped. The first time without explanation when he does something wrong....thats 1, next thats 2, next thats 3 walk him to your door, tell him to leave, shut and lock the door and that is it be done with it. I hope it works I know how frustrating it can be! use the garden hose and every time the brat comes into your yard spray him and if that don't work up grade to a paintball gun |
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