Is THIS cheating-myspace email?

I hacked my BF's email and found this - what would you do.... additionally there were naked pics from girls in his email..YIKES.
what do i say? "i hacked your email, and found this...?" read below

I only got a message from someone claiming to be the man of my dreams ... oh, was that you ?? LOL I'm kidding of course. I didn't get a text from you, though. I'm usually really good at returning text messages.

I just started a new job and have been really busy and exhausted. Too much **** going on, I guess.

Of course I still love you, silly.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Bill
Date: Aug 25, 2008 12:02 AM



so i called... and sent text... and no reply... (sigh) oh well... i guess she doesn't love me anymore...


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Laurie
Date: Jul 28, 2008 6:14 AM



I'm rarely on yahoo anymore. My number is 386-366-4680. As for your other question ... not at night.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Bill
Date: Jul 28, 2008 1:28 AM


soo... you ever on yahoo anymore? my phone number hasn't changed, but i have lost yours... ever touch yourself in the middle of the night thinking about me?



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Laurie
Date: Jul 25, 2008 3:19 PM



Likewise.

Glad to know you're still the same ol' boy I love :)

You don't be a stranger either ....
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Bill
Date: Jul 25, 2008 3:20 PM


sounds good! good luck, and you know if there's anything i can do for you... make you laugh, shoot in your mouth, whatever, just let me know.

don't be a stranger!

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Laurie
Date: Jul 25, 2008 10:51 AM



I made some friends up here and needed to get out of DeLand so I thought I'd give it a shot. I've only been up here for a couple of weeks, but so far so good. Don't know if it'll be permanent yet , but I'm gonna give it some time and see what happens. Yep, still taking care of critters. I start my new job up here week after next.

If I ever end up in Tennessee, it'll be with my folks in Crossville ... about an hour west of Knoxville. That won't be for awhile, though. Gotta give this place a chance first, ya know?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Bill
Date: Jul 25, 2008 11:19 AM


what's going on in tallahassee? still takeing care of little sick critters? if you end up in tn, whereabouts would you be?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..Laurie..
Date: Jul 25, 2008 7:07 AM



Ok, that's really, really scary! Lol Must be some girl you hooked up with :) I'm glad you're doing well, tho.

I'm in Tallahassee now, trying to make a go of it. I desperately needed a new scene. If this doesn't work for my, next stop is TN.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..Bill..
Date: Jul 22, 2008 2:37 PM


well, i'm glad to hear you're doing well... or better... or whatever. i'm doing fine; still in nashvegas, finally paid off my bike and am thinking about buying a house. imagine that, me, a responsible home owner. YIKES!

well, don't be a stranger baby,

take care

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..Laurie..
Date: Jul 22, 2008 6:36 AM


Its been a long, rough year. Things are looking up, though.

Sorry ... didn't mean to ignore you.

You ok?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ..Bill..
Date: Feb 23, 2008 2:38 PM


what's shakin, baby? how come you never talk to me anymore???

It's only cheating if you considering it cheating.

Does it matter though? Do you have a good relationship, other then this possible indiscretion? If so, then it doesn't matter if he flirts with other chicks :)

P.S. How many people, do you think, are going to call that girls number? :D

Of course it is cheating, ask yourself this, would he do it with you standing there watching? If the answer is no it's cheating.

i would try to talk to him about it, and ask if threes anything he needs to tell you or if threes another girl i likes. have you called the number?

no offense, but are you dumb. saying i love you and talking aobut fingering herself is basically cheating.

well its not technically cheating but its so messed up
confront him about it say you were just looking at it

That's really up to you to decide because you know your BF better then anyone else on here who's going to read this, ya know? But all I can say is, this doesn't sound good at all. And if he's going to physically cheat, you aren't going to stop him and you don't want to be with him anyways. PLEASE... don't be with someone if you can't trust them. I personally would be PISSED if I saw something like this written by my BF. Put yourself first... is this the kind of person you want to be with??? Really?? There are SO many people out there.... don't settle for less because being with him reflects on you so he needs to live up to your standards...and if not, then you don't need him! : )

seriously!!!! have the DIGNITY to go up to him and confront him...he thinks u dont know anything and he can get away with it...show him his place...wheres ur PRIDE...u deserve to be RESPECTED and LOVED...not treated as some 3rd wheel commodity.

NAKED PICS!!!! and ur still with him???? i wouldve kicked his *** to the kerb...technically its CHEATING because if it werent, then y does he feel the need to hide it unless its WRONG???? if his chattin wit another woman and not u then u should be worried. to me ITS CHEATING

men like him cant be in a relationship

WOW see what you snooping got you into?! Well look I would confront him but in a way that you dont let him know you are snooping in his e-mail. why dont you try something like this say "Hey who's number is this" and you say her number cause she mentions it in her e-mail. He wont know you have his e-mail or say hey someone called me and gave me this number try something that you think its gonna work dont go to strait with it because then you will never know like if he changes his password. you know be smart in what you say but dont ever let him know you was snooping his e-mail. And that lets you know what type of guy he is!

im going to tell you something that you probally dont want to hear. but darling if there were naked photos thats enough for me to leave the guy. because if he looks at other gurls other than YOU god knows what he looks at wen he isnt on MYSPACE i.e - when he goes out. the things sed seem to b a little too much for a context of being just friends. i would say he is being unfaithful darling. you should definatly question him about this. he has nothing to lie about. since its right ther in black and white.. GOOD LUCK x

I think u know the answer to this.. u need to dump his ***.. it isnt guna be easy and werid wen he asks y and u say well i hacked ur email coz hes guna get the shits at u.. but u were clearly sus and u were right naked pics and dirty emails.. sounds like a sly prick move on and find someone who deserves u and treats u how u deserve to be treated xx

Even if there's a reasonable explanation (which, judging by this conversation, I doubt there is, sorry) I think you should think about your relationship. Sorry to lecture you or anything, but relationships are all about trust, and if you felt that you had to hack into his emails to see if he is faithfull then you obviously don't trust him (not that I'm saying its your fault - you probably had good reason not to trust him). Maybe you should end it - think about it: even if you stay together, could you ever trust him completely again? Or would there always be a nagging doubt?

good luck with whatever you decide to do!
x

yeah thats definitely sketchy but theres definitely no pride in confiding that you were snooping. try a subtle approach or catch him in the act. or just break it off now if it's not worth the heart ache.

unless he gave you his password himself and is in knowledge that you get on his stuff, you shouldnt directly question him about it.