about 10 days ago i was eating breakfast at a diner down the street from me. i drive my scooter down there bc its so close. i ride a scooter bc im handicap but i can walk & i am independent. i ride it for when i dont walk short distances.
anyway, i ordered what i usually do & it was kinda dead so the waitress sits down for a couple mins. we small talk & we know each other bc im a regular. she got up & went to the kitchen & when she went by me next time she grabbed my forearm. i just kinda brshed that off but she did it again few mins later. shes didnt squeeze it hard but put her hand around my bicep. it was noticeable since it was the second time she did it. shes around my age im 26 shes 24. i was sure to say goodbye to her when i left
3 days later i go sit where i usually sit order what i usually order &she waits on me. we talked bout her roomate shes about to kick out & when i left she initiated a hug.
on saturday, shes was real busy, but she calls me baby & babe when she saw me. i left her my # with her last thursday and on saturday i went to the diner where she works with a friend.. she was super busy but s she was walkin by she said hey baby and babe twice.
2 days ago i went in the evening and was passing by the diner to get a shake. she seems me outside waiting and smiles and waves and comes out side. she told me that she meant to call me shes just been slammed with work.
today i went for breakfast and she said i want to say goodbye b4 it gets busy and we hugged. she askled me if i was going to come back this weekend and i told her maybe... i will to see her :) It's very hard to judge based on that, since she is a waitress and lives on tips. Therefore she has an incentive to be nice and call you "babe" and "baby." It sounds like there MIGHT be something there, though, and you did the right thing by putting the ball in her court and giving her your phone number. Now it's just a matter of waiting it out and see how she reacts. No she doesn't like you.
For a waitress flirting with people is a part of the job. It's how they get better tips. | 