I'm Beginning to think my "friends" aren't exactly friends....?

I have been with a group of friends for some time, But now it has begun to fall apart. All of my friends manipulate me, Take advantage of me, or insult me in subtle ways. It really makes me upset, But I have no other friends, so if I am not friends with them, I will be all alone. What should I do? They are so mean sometimes! like, I have this electric scooter, and they are only coming over to my house to ride it constantly, and they put so much damage on it. And 1 of them is ALWAYS bragging about, how she and our other friend could hang with the populars if they want, and that every guy likes her. And another 1 is always trying to be better than me and put me down. And the last 1 is just plain mean. SHe says 1 thing to me, then another thingbehind my back. I am getting sick of their bragging and lies! What should I do?

Those are not true friends... I know it is hard in such situations, but the best thing to do is to let them go. Just slowly give them hints that you don't want to be friends with them any more if they continue acting like this. If seeing this they start changing, then let them change and continue being friends with them. If not, just leave them. Don't think you will be left alone, it's not like they are the only people in the universe. There will always be other friends. They probably try to manipulate you and take advantage of you because you are kind and such... just find a friend who appreciates you. You might suffer more if you continue like this. Best of luck.

I'd rather be alone this girls are bitches. Who in the world would want to be friends with little girls like this?

start playn soccer nd hanging out with guys


and what the...popularity? what grade ru in?


wow son wow

Move on get some new friends ,sometimes people who you think are your friends aren't. I been in your situation it time to get some new friends. They shouldn't be talking crap about you. You deserve better.

Don't waste your time with people who use you. Join some kind of activity where you can meet other people who might be better friends. It needs to be 50-50 most of the time or it is not worth it.

You don't have to dump your friends, but you can faze them out while meeting new "nice" people. Your friends should have your best intentions at heart and yours clearly do not. Try joining in some activities and maybe you'll meet people who you have common interests with.

Sometimes its better not having any friends than to have fake ones you'll meet new ones

you know, its not soo bad being a loner. it sounds bad but its not. the other girls in my new area feel threatened by me. i think its because their boyfriends talk to me, i would never take a girls bf away. but anyways, i love being alone, it just gives me time to focus on myself, and my life goals, and before you know it, a group of friends will come along. it happened to me. i see them every friday!

OKAY DO THEY HAVE YAHOO I WILL STRAIGHTIN THEM OUT.and don't listen to wat people say they are just haters.keep your head up.

loose them! i had a friend just like them. i told her off and she got really mad and sad. then she wanted to be my friend again and i told her i would if she would stop being a huge b**** all the time! and she agreed and were still friends and she's a whole lot nicer now. so just tell them if they want to be your friend they gota stop being jerks and lieing all the time.

wow, there deff not your frineds, if you are nice to them, at lunch or sumthing, ask to sit wiht sumone esle, you can email me if you want to talk, we have this draam going on in our school, and some of your friends sound like MY friends sometimes. i hvae a friend tht ALWAYS needs to be better than me, really annoying, so im sorry its happening to you too, try to talk to them i guess, i'd be happy to talk to you about it, i can tell you about MY problems too! lol

join clubs that intrest you get 1 friend and adopt her/his friends

1) Good friends don't damage your property.
2) If she and the other one could hang out with the popular crowd or with some guy who was hot for them..... they WOULD, but they're not, so what does that tell you?
3)Friends don't put you down.
4)Friends don't back-stab you.
With friends like these who needs enemies is what I think.

well it's better to leave them alone...I see u are a kind person so u'll find other friends...so don't stay with them any longer BRAKE IT OFF !!!!! they don't deserve u ... so hang out with boys and girls who like u for who u are not for what u have ^-~

I have been in this situation, seriously. I agree with what previous people have said- lose them.
Don't be really bitchy or obvious about it- by the sounds of it you deciding to move on when they are having so much fun messing with you will seriously P them off.
Instead slowly distance yourself. Try maybe going somwhere different at break and lunch, i dunno the library or assembly hall maybe? Get some homework done? I know it might sound slightly dorky but you will probably find you end up in a conversation with someone you didn't know you had so much in common with or maybe it'll give you some free time to join a new club or society.
It might be a good idea to join a new club. Meet new people?
If they come round to your place get someone to say you're busy e.g. parents or a sibling or face them yourself and- hard as it may be- LIE. Say you have homework or you don't feel well.
If it get's worse tell a parent or someone of authority. It's BULLYING. They are making you miserable, which they have no right to do.
Good luck, I hope you get everything sorted out.

hey come on those r not the last girls on earth. why r u so worried?? u know what?? they r just taking advantage of u coz they have taken u for granted. u got to be more assertive, tell them directly not to damage ur stuffs,if they threaten to leave tell them u can do that. u can always find new frnds n mind u better ones too.
as for the one who brags next time she tells u that ask her if she was so great why does she have to borrow your scooter instead of going with those popular friends of hers, for the third talk to her directly in front of everyone and tell her to stop her backbiting for her own good, finally say a long GOODBYE!!! find new n better frnds n start it new

DUMP them!! I would rather have no friends than fake friends. You are not losing friends by getting rid of users. You will be able to gain some self-respect (which is what you really need) If you had self-respect you would not allow these people to take advantage of you. G'luck

DUMP THESE PEOPLE. I'D RATHER BE ALONE THEN WITH THESE LOSERS!

'Friends' like these, who needs enemies?

They are all right there

Advice:

Act like you dont know them!!