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Craziest thing happened? |
My fiance and I were together for about 4 years. The relationship was absolutely amazing. We stayed with his parents for a while to save money for our place. Unfortunately, his mother did EVERYTHING for him. She paid for his car, his gas, and the insurance all he had to do was drive it. So, we sold that car and got him a nice truck- his payments, in his name. Now he pays for it all. We were suppose to move into our own place on July 1st. We'd even gone shopping for things. Then all of a sudden- it's over. He picks a fight with me about a car stereo, tells me to get my things and leave and his reasons? - You have too much attitude, I don't want a relationship, I'm concentrating on my dirt bike career, we weren't giving the relationship 100%. Okay...The ring was on my finger and we were going to Mexico this Oct to wed. A lot of people are saying he's scared and getting cold feet. But everytime i speak to him he says he doesnt want a relationship and I should date if i want to... read on Don't answer the calls. He is obviously confused and reliant on his mother. You want an independent guy, don't you? He is a "Momma's Boy" and she will never allow him to cut the apron strings as she is still in controle of his life. Realize this and move on to a "Real Man". life experiences Do not get involved with a man that cannot commit to you 100%. Not to mention, do you want to marry him - - or him and his mother? Cause it sounds like if you stick with him, it would be the later. Only YOU can make yourself happy. Find yourself a guy who doesnt play such games. get a new dude. he's a momma's boy. probbably sleeps with her. LOL i think that he will come back if you give him some space, this is alot for him to grasp, i mean come on, living with mommy all his life and now this, thats a BIG jump, just give it some time and dont rush anything Okay so it took 4 years of dating & living at his Mom's for all of this to finally come out? Thank God you weren't married already! Do you want to have to worry about crap like this for the rest of your life? Cut your losses & forget this guy... 4 years investment into this relationship should be chalked up to 4 years of valuable lessons! Sometimes it takes less or longer to really, REALLY get to know someone... his Mom letting you move in rent free, with no obligations was the 1st clue... his Mom paying for all his stuff with him taking no responsiblitiy was the 2nd clue. This man is a moocher & he has mooched on you for morale support & love. Is this what you get in return??? It may have been a good thing once, but it is no more. It may hurt like the dickens now...but you will get over him & later you will thank your lucky stars that this relationship ended. As the old fashion saying goes: "there are a lot more fish in the sea"...so my dear GO FISHING & observe the "catch & release" rule for awhile...don't jump into another frying pan. Mr. Right will come along & you will recogniz him when he does! This is where thanking your lucky stars happens! :-) And if this doens't convince you...how about this.... If he is like this NOW how will he be in the F"UTURE as a husband with house payments, career?, children? ... And if you're thinking 4 years is a long time.... the average American female now lives to the ripe old age of 84. 4 yrs is only 1/24th of a lifetime! Best Wishes! |
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