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Frustrated with husband - he just doesnt understand!? |
i kind of need to vent here. my husband works a labor job where he moves furniture and drives a truck. he seems to think that even when he gets home from work he shouldnt have to do as much to take care of our son as me since im "just home all day". our son is 4 months old. i dont know how to get it through to him that its not easy being home taking care of a baby 24/7 and that i dont just sit around all day relaxing. today for example, he went to work at 730 am, drove for 3 1/2 hrs, worked for about 3 hrs labor and will drive for another 3 1/2 hrs home. on his way home hes now decided to go to a skate park to ride his bmx bike for a while and this makes me angry because he brought our car to work this morning because the baby didnt sleep well last night and i couldnt drag myself out of bed to drive him there at 7 am. so, not only can i not go anywhere or get anything done for longer and im home taking care of our son while hes out having a good time. i never get to just go out and Welcome to motherhood. Really, I can understand your frustration with your husband. Try and explain to him that it's not just you that needs his help and attention after he gets home. Remind him that it's important for him to take time to bond with his child. The BMX bike isn't going to grow up angry with it's father for not paying attention to it! welcome to motherhood. They are all that way. lol, welcome to the life of a stay at home mom!! tell him exactly what you just explained and dont let him speak untill you are done. I would say congrats when you dump this loser. better off on welfare. I'm sorry you are going through this. I really believe that you should sit down with him and discuss this. Let him know that being a stay at home mom is not all it's beefed up to be. You don't just sit and do your nails and watch soaps all day, you actually work hard, maybe harder than him some days. Let him know that instead of a 9 to 5, you work 24/7 - without pay!!!!! He may understand better what you're going through if you tell him straight up like you just told us. And ask him for a night when he'll babysit - not really since it is his kid - and you go out and hang. He'll see what it feels like to take care of a 4 month old all night by himself. Hope this helped ya some. And keep your head up. You're obviously a good mother and wife! TTC Baby #1 CD 6 |
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