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Selfish Jack & Greed? |
Ok guys I need help here. Today something on my truck broke. It would not shift into 3rd gear. Knowing how expensive transmission stuff is I wanted to get it into the shop right away.I had my 3 kids with me and we were all in our swimsuits. I called my husband to ask him to meet me @ repair shop so I can drop it off & get the kids & I a ride home to get dinner for kids & get my son ready for his baseball game. My husband told me to drive it home and we would worry about it tomorrow because he was going riding..maybe my son could get a ride to his game from someone else and I could find something in the house to cook them. Keep in mind we have no family in town.What do I do now?He knows I will not leave him.How do I express how I feel without going off the deep end.Anyone have any good ideas on how I should handle myself?I don't want to get any of my friends and family involved just yet. I want to throw his bike off a cliff or sell it, but I do fear my life if I did those things. this is straight up selfishness, you can best believe he will need you in the future and make yourself unavailable. how dare him, not put his family first. you know there is no room for last place and if you keep allowing this he will continue to do this to you and the kids. if he was like this today, he has done many other things to put you and the family last, you really need to start planning on how to leave this selfish person, cause your kids do not need this especially from their father. a father is suppose to be someone the family can depend on. so the question is can you and your kids depend on this person? good luck to your decisions. Have patience. Eventually, it will kill him for you. stop taking your anger out on the gear stick. its too bad you cant get someone to drive you and the kids to your husbands place of employment, drop the kids off with your husband, and tell him that your gonna use his bike to go riding and that he should watch the kids for you while you do. then just leave the kids with him and walk out, go home , and get the bike and ride it till the wheels fall off!!!! |
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