I just have not been out since I bought it new & I had other bikes & had rode the year before just afraid I think of somebody stealing it or breaking the shifters out side or cutting the lock by hack saw etc!!! Plus I had seen her at group homes before. so i need motivation
I'm not sure I understand the ex-girlfriend bit, but about the bike. You bought it now ride it. Use a chain and even if someone steals it, it's not the end of the world! Is your fear of your bike being stolen an excuse to not visit the friend? It makes sense that if you dont' really want to visit your friend, your mind is thinking of all sorts of reasons why you shouldn't.
If you do want to go visit your friend, bring a good lock, and then reward yourself when you get home. I'm sure it will be a trip you will be happy you took once you get home. When I have to do things like exercise that I don't feel like doing, I reward myself when I'm done with things like a pedicure, shopping, a movie, candy, etc.
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