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MARRIED GUYS: I've lost some extra weight, and I'm getting compliments, but my husband is more distant lately? |
What could be the problem? I've not changed much about how I conduct my life (I still maintain the same schedule, though added some biking with the kids) and I've put a few blonde highlights in my long light brown hair. Why would he be acting this way? Perhaps he liked the extra pounds. Or he could also be feeling threaten if your getting in better shape he may fear other men will start to check you out, perhaps men he might feel inferior to because they are in better shape or better looking then him. I've been there...hubby feared he would loose me..its his insecureity he's worried that he'll lose you. talk to HIM, before he pushes you away. Losing weight is not a problem, it is a general one. you just adhere to the wordings of your partner, adjust with him and will get everything . Keep confident that you will be getting, it will be done Men have insecurities too!! He is worried about you becoming a hottie, and him staying the same. Keep giving him attention, seduce him so he knows he still drives you crazy, and make sure to tell him you love him. Try to get a weekend alone to reconnect and maybe ask him if anything is bothering him. For all you know, maybe he just doesn't like the blonde highlights lol, or is not quite used to your new body yet. It may be simple, but in those cases it's usually their insecurities showing through. He is jealous of you getting attention. You have made improvements to yourself and he is wondering what is going on. Are you doing this to atract other men? Do you still love him? This is some things that he might be thinking. You are getting younger and better looking, he is getting older, fatter, balder, and worn out. Do a couple of things to make him feel wanted and loved and he should come out of his funk. Your husband is just feeling insecure. If I were him but I'm not, I would very proud of you. So what if guys compiments you, it tells me my wife is sexxxy. |
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