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My fiance and I were together for about 4 years. The relationship was absolutely amazing. We stayed with his parents for a while to save money for our place. Unfortunately, his mother did EVERYTHING for him. She paid for his car, his gas, and the insurance all he had to do was drive it. So, we sold that car and got him a nice truck- his payments, in his name. Now he pays for it all. We were suppose to move into our own place on July 1st. We'd even gone shopping for things. Then all of a sudden- it's over. He picks a fight with me about a car stereo, tells me to get my things and leave and his reasons? - You have too much attitude, I don't want a relationship, I'm concentrating on my dirt bike career, we weren't giving the relationship 100%. Okay...The ring was on my finger and we were going to Mexico this Oct to wed. A lot of people are saying he's scared and getting cold feet. But everytime i speak to him he says he doesnt want a relationship and I should date if i want to... read on K first off...he has cold feet for sure...first of all... Second of all...if he doesn't "Want a relationship" he needs to follow your rules...He can't have it both ways...he doesn't need to spend the night with you...dont be stupid. I don't want to marry you or live with you but I'll hold your stuff hostage and come screw you when I feel like it?? Hello...No, tell him you're fine, you don't need him to stay with you, what you need is for him to load up your stuff in his nice new truck and drop your stuff off..you may not be home...cause you might have a date. I know you love him, but trust me...if you let him start walking all over you now , it will never stop....If he didn't like "your attitude" why the hell was it ok for 4 years and it's tolerable to spend the night with ...but not to marry...b*llshit. He kicked you out and dismissed you...if he wants you back ...it should be on your terms. Source(s): Speaking from experiecnce... He dumped me, I gave him the cold shoulder, he begged me back three months later...long story short...we've been married for 4 years this July and we're expecting our first son in October. School that boy and make him a man...or else he's no good to you anyway. Good Luck. just remember the saying if you love someone, set them free Move on.....if he wants you back he will let you know. I would not wait for him, you could be waiting forever. If he sees that you are fine with it and getting on with your life, he may finally realize that he is an ***. yes, just ignore him and dont talk to him. that worked with me and mines came running back. just ignore him show him that you can live without him. it will work. i promise. Good luck!!! let him go. If he is willing to leave a four year relationship with a wonderful woman like yourself over a stupid disagreement, you will be better off without him. There are mony more fish in the sea. ignore him first then see the results |
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