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Is it her age? |
I have been divorced from my Ex for 3 years now.I have 2 children from him and since I have remarried and have 2 kids with my current husband.As an Easter gift fir my two older children,Their father and I were going to get them new bikes and split the cost.We were supposed to meet at a local store so the boys could pick out their new bikes and my Ex was going to bring a bike home for me since I have a small car and could only fit one bike in the trunk.My Ex had emailed me and said he couldnt go now because it would start trouble at home with his girlfriend.She is 19 and he is 32. they have had a child together since our divorce.I dont understand what the girlfriend is so worried about, is it her age?I am very happily married with my husband and wouldnt think of trying to get back together with my Ex.The only time I make contact with him is if it has something to do about our 2 children.My sons also told me that the girlfriend is very mean to them when they go to see their Dad. maybe she pities money your ex spends on your kids? anyway it's their own business. im sorry to hear that but i can say that my hubby has 2 daughters of his own and i absolutely hate them. and im against him meeting them and spending money on them. and i wonder if your current husband had his own kids would u love them as your own? so don't judge your ex's gf, nobody is perfect, even u. the only thing: when your kids will go to visit your ex at his home order him to control his gf that she isn't mean to them, she has no rights to do that. even if i absolutely and from the bottom of my heart hate my hubby's daughters i am never mean to them. i just hate them in my mind She probably thinks u would get back with ur ex/her husband not just her age I believe she is jealous and afraid of loosing him. I have a girlfried that is afraid that I am going to start all over agian with my ex. u can reach an agreement with ur ex husband to hirer a truck that will take the bike home for u. I wish u luck I don't think it is her age as much as her insecurity about herself and their relationship. How can anyone promise something to a child and then not deliver, that to me is almost criminal. Talk to him about this in those terms, let him know how this makes the kids feel. He needs to be there for his kids, that's a parents duty. As for the attitude of the new girlfriend, make it clear to him how the kids feel about her. If he is any kind of father he will address this problem. Unfortunately, it is the kids that often pay the price for what the "grown ups" do. Point this out to your ex and let him know it is not ok for his girlfriend to treat your children this way. Would she want her new child to go through the same treatment? Kids don't forget promises made to them, especially by a parent. If you can't deliver, don't promise. Good luck your situation is very creitical. i have no idia about it. sorry........ Your husband is a fool for letting this go on. The two of you will be connected for the rest of your lives because of the children that you share. I would be emailing him and letting him know everything that kids have told you about the way she treats them.If he doesn't take some action against this now he could find in the future that his relationship with your boys will be jeopardized because of her.It would be totally up to him then on how he wants to handle it. It's not her age, it's her mean, miser nature. Unfortunately a lot of people are like that, even if it involves kids. If she can't take that your ex has kids, she should not have started dating him to begin with. Your ex should understand that he's risking a lot of things by playing her game. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but your kids deserve better than this woman as a step mother, and her behaviour as the rule. |
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