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What if the man I love does not wear his wedding ring anymore, but he has been married 20 yrs to someone else? |
What does that mean? There is a definite chemistry between us, we have known each other 25 yrs, and he always helps me when I call him, he will take me to the grocery store, help put my new bed up, help deliver my washer and dryer, got my 16 yr old son a bike, he will give us money, and he told me that if he had more money, he would help me more. Does he really love me enough to leave her, or does he feel obligated to help me & feel sorry for me, because I am a single mom of 2, and my 10 yr old is autistic-special needs child? I have been in 2 other relationships, but I have never stopped loving him, and I will wait forever for him to be mine. If he hasn't left her in 20 years and he knew you prior to marrying her I would let it go. It doesn't matter if he loves you or not because he doesn't love you or her enough to be a man and be with who he wants to be with. He couldn't be wearing the ring for a whole host of reasons that have nothing to do with you. You should want more for yourself and your children. Sounds to me like he is just being nice. Move on...life shouldnt be wasted on married men/women. Get your own husband! he's married, stay out of his life and do not be a homewrecker. OK so you love him, well so does his wife and kids i'm sure. leave him alone and move on with your life. you don't want to be responsible for breaking up a family. and you know if he is doing it with his wife i'm sure he will do it to you too, actually there are probalby lots of "you's" to him anyways uh...hello!....he's married so leave him the hell alone. Just cuz he's not wearing his ring doesn't mean anything at all. There are millions of people who either don't have a ring, lost their ring, or don't care to wear their ring. It is not a sign that the marriage is in trouble. If you're so crushing on this guy, just remember that if he leaves his wife of 20 to be with you, he's capable of doing the same thing to you too once he gets bored. If you respect yourself and have any kind of morals, you'd stop infringing on his marriage until and if he ever becomes single. Do you really want to be that woman who broke a marriage up? Get real. This man is just being nice. He isn't in love with you. Get yourself out of the habit of asking this man for help. Don't accept money from him. Get some pride! Grow a back bone! Get a life. Join the local gym. Volunteer at the local nursing home. Take some classes at the local community college. If he knows that you will wait forever on him, I'm sorry but you may die an old and bitter woman while waiting on him as he may never leave her. Don't confuse his help as love for you. If he isn't at some point faced with the possibility of loosing you, then he will continue this lifestyle Gosh, I'm just taking a stab at it here, but could he not be wearing his wedding ring because he's trying to find some nice naive little honey like you so he can eat cake and have it, too??? Just a thought. You are engaging in some despicable behavior, dear. You are being a bad example to your children. Of course he'll buy you and your kids things....he wants to get laid, more than likely. And that's the cost of getting laid. If you have known him for 25 years I'm guessing you're around 40 or so, and I wonder why on God's green earth you have two kids with no husband, don't seem to be able to support yourself, AND you are pining for some cheating SOB who is buying his way (successfully it would seem) into your bed. You see this guy as some kind of white knight who has the money to save you and your kids....and YOU ARE TREATING HIS WIFE LIKE GARBAGE. Is that the kind of person you want to be? Is that the kind of person you want your kids to be, because you're telling them that it's okay. GET AWAY FROM MR. CHARMING. What did Mrs. Charming ever do to you????????????????????? |
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