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ok my little brother is so disrespectful to my mom. he calls her names like b*tch,whore, crippled b*tch and even more. He wont listen to her at all. He is so bad she had a minor heart attack. now she takes medicine for chest pains. she has had welfare on her a couple of days ago cause he went into a store and started callin her names and someone called welfare. welfare said if they get called again on her they will take my 2 younger sisters and brother to foster care. She has tryed smacking his butt he just goes outside screaming in front of everybody. tryed taking toys away doesnt work. He is ADHD and is on sleeping pills. he is very out of control and i hate to see what he does when he gets older. HE is only 9 he is starting to steal ppl bikes and toys and callin little kids names that he dont even no and he is staring to say n*gger to ppl who walk down the street. see my mom and step dad just hawhat can i do to help? what can my mom do to change him? is there any help for him?? Medicine and Pills don't even do much, they don't help the child emotionally, which is what your little brother needs. Emotion healing...and attention. Apparently someone is exposing those type of words to him. And let your younger sister know not to say those words. Maybe a nice little letter to Dr. Phil could help? Your step-father needs to help with the children, and you need to let your mother know that. If he does not...then apparently he doesn't want to be in his children's lives. And because of this, he shouldn't help your mother with custody and all that. Just have your mother take full custody if he doesn't want to even help your stressed mother for a weekend. Your mother needs a break...watch the kids for a day and let her go pamper herself for a day. Family consuling...this could work...if you can get your younger brother to the clinic. It could maybe just be the medication...either too much, not enough, or even the right type. A book I reccomend to read to your younger brother, is Joey Pigza Swallowed the Key. Play with him, it'll give him a friend, and it'll calm him down around your mother. Watch movies with him on weekends, and teach him right from wrong. See....sibilings can help by doing these type of things...teaching the younger sibilings, spending time with them. Do NOT I repeat DO NOT LET YOUR MOTHER SPANK HIM OR TOUCH HIM BADLY IN ANYWAY! It is disrepectful to her son, and it will get him more upset/angry. What he need is loving and an understanding family. If he already has this, than just get to him...deep down in his heart. Good luck. Spend time w. him! Source(s): http://www.adhdhelp.org/ http://www.adhdnews.com/ This boy needs proper attention from mom, not pills, and mom needs to stop with the guys, pay attention to her kids and start taking care of business. Be decent to the boy, not mean. omg! i have a lil brother just like him She needs to take a course on effective parenting. Whatever she is using for discipline is not working. She needs to try something else. It's possible that the divorce has left him very angry and maybe that needs to be addressed. It may be time for your mother to consider putting him in a home for troubled youth. My mom did that with my brother and it seemed to help a lot. As for you, there's not a whole lot you can do other than tell him that he's being rude and that he should stop. He probably won't listen, but at least you tried. Perhaps your mother could also take your brother to the doctor to assess his meds to see if they're right for him. The sleeping pills and anything he's taking for the ADHD could also be causing the chemicals in his brain to go out of balance, which causes similar effects to the symptoms they're designed to treat. Just because the doctor says he needs more meds doesn't make it necessarily so. It's still really common for doctors to misdiagnose or to prescribe the wrong thing or even dosage. I'd get a second opinion. please first say hello to your mum and tell her to consider me like a sister wants to help her. first i suggest to take him to school can change his unbehavioural works. then you have to do a conversation and tell him that all the world will hate him after he will be b ig then please send an email to tell you what you have to do cause i'm adoctor and thank you |
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