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Is it wrong 4 me 2 b mad @ my dad? |
ok i just met my ddad like 3 years ago and he told me he would never let me down on anything... even the smallest things unless it was an emergency. and he has cancelled things between us but he would always tell me why and then talk to me for a little bit. well anywaysi dont have my licens yet and i get around on my bike. well my bike got essed up and he took it to the shop and told me he would come pick me up to get it. well that was like a week ago. anyways...... i calle him today to see if he wanted to hang out and he said that he would call me back. he never called me back. then he told my parents that he would came and pick me up. he never picked me up. then i asked him if him and i were still up for tomarrow to get my bike cuz i havent seen him in like a realy long time cuz ive been sick lately. well then he said he didnt want to pick me up tomarrow. this is realy depressing for me and i dont know if being ad at him is the awnser... cuz usualy he tells me if somthings up........ there could be a problem he just does not think you need to know about or maybe would not understand... or maybe he just does not know how to explain it to you... I suggest you call him 1 more time and just straight out ask him what is up.... tell him how ya feel , short and to the point..... make the first move... parents are not always right, we just do the best we can....... God bless wat dus ur qst sey I think you have a right to be upset with him....I dont think it is anger,though. Sounds more like " Very Dissappointed" Wait till he calls again and tell him he hurt your feelings. I wish you all the best. Appreciate the parents you have at home too. Ask them to go get your bike. Take Care,hun. maybe, like your answer, you talk too much? You met him 3 years ago - yet, "he usually tells you if somethings up"? You are only kidding yourself. He is not going to change and he is only going to mess with your head. He is not reliable, or dependable. Maybe there is a real good reason that he just decided to show up one day and try to pretend to be a dad to you know. My guess is that he just got bored and you (part-time parenting) was something to try for a while. Enjoy him while he is around, but don't count on him or rely on him or trust his word - you already know all that in your heart if you are honest with yourself. It is NOT your fault - sounds like he just never grew up. no it's not and you should tell him you're mad at him. sometimes parents forget that kids have feelings too. It looks like you have a healthy relationship. Use it to get to the bottom of things and ask him what's up with his missing out on his promises to you. You seem like someone who's matured enough to understand what's going on. |
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