My ex doesnt believe I was a virgin!!!?

I was talking to my ex and he told me he doesnt believe I was a virgin when we were together. But I really was. He says he doesnt believe me because I was 24, pretty, and the sex was amazing, and I seemed like a pro. He said I didnt just lay there like most virgins do there first time and the oral sex was perfect too. And I didnt bleed ( because years ago when I was a little girl I hit my private part on my bicycle really hard and broke my hymen..twice) He says I seemed too experienced to have been a virgin. How do I convince him I was being honest and I really WAS a virgin! I mean I watched porn, and read books and got sex advice from friends, so I guess thats why I seemed experienced, and I was really comfortable with him. How do I convince him I was a virgin because I feel like he broke up with me because maybe he thought I was lying about my virginty and he might of thought I was a lier. I really miss him and I dont want him to think I was lying to him.

Sounds like knowing too much kinda backfired on you.
He's already made up his mind and you won't be able
to convince him otherwise.
Were you guys in love with each other before you did this?
You only say that you were comfortable with him and that
you miss him.
Please be aware that by trying harder to make him beleive
you, you're only making it worse. He's got you on the
defensive end of this situation. It's not a good place to be!
Just know in your heart that you were being honest with
him and that your conscience is clear.
I urge you to avoid the subject completely from now on.
If you're are still friends and he tries to bring up the subject,
tell him to drop it and move on to something else.
By doing that, you won't have to defend yourself all over
again.
Take what you've learned from this and move on .
He's already told you that making love with you was
fantastic and that the oral aspect of it was perfect.
Find someone else that you really like and want and
go for it. I'm sure he will not only appreciate you for
your personality and beauty, he will appreciate your
love making skills as well.....and you won't ever have
to defend your integrety again. You won't be a virgin
and he'll know that too.
Try to keep it all in perspective.
You are an honest and caring person. Your desire
to make someone you care about feel special is
to be commended.
There's more to you than you realize.

wow!

ignore him

Well if you were u were what's the big deal?

If he was only with you because he thought you were a virgin, he's not worth your time. If he doesn't trust you, again, he isn't worth it.

just show him what you typed

I dont believe it either. Sorry.?

Sounds like it's a good thing he's your "ex".

gosh, that's a tough one. you can't really make him think a different way...he's got his mind set...tell him what you just told us. you sound convincing to me.

why do you care what he thinks, he's your ex!

sounds like a **** if you ask me

He sounds like a jerk. The reality is it doesn't matter what he thinks. As long as you know the truth. Move on, you WILL find someone that has some respect for you.

I dont think you can convince him otherwise.

He's your EX--who CARES what he thinks??!!
And FYI, you cannot break your hymen twice-once it's torn, that's it.

You aren't together anymore so why should it matter what he thinks? If this is all about just trying to get back together with him, If he doesn't trust you then why would you want to be with him anyway? Sounds to me that he isn't worth it. You can find someone out there that loves you and trusts you for who you are and what you are worth - not what you are trying to prove.

well if he doesnt believe you then hes so not worth it

then screw him... literally

hell with him,,you don't have to prove yourself,,move on

The bigger question is why do you care? He's your EX .. and hunny in the big scheme of things, it does not matter. It seems to me that he is just trying to make you feel bad about yourself and you feel hook, line and sinker. Just move on, you don't owe him an explanation!

I dont blame the guy for not believing you after reading all that i mean looks like something a whore would do.

Honesty is key. If he doesn't believe you, maybe it's good that he is your EX now. Boys suck sometimes.
If he won't listen to you, don't waste your time.

well if he doesnt believe you and you are telling the truth then whats the point of it? i mean if youd told him all you say here and you swear to him your not lieing and he still doesnt believe you then he must just be an ***

Girl, please! If he broke up with you because he didnt believe you were a virgin or not, let the loser go. Sheesh!

He's your Ex. Why do you care what he thinks?

The more you protest your honesty, the more he's going to protest your guilt.

The next time he brings it up, just pat him gently on the cheek and say "Whatever dear, you just keep on thinking what you need to think, cause you ain't never going to taste this honey again!"

I am not sure if you should really try so hard...if he has his mind set on something else and has already decide to move on, these things act as excuse alone....So, better would be to keep yourself up and right and let things go the way they wanna move...Believing you or not is his headache..

hmm. its hard to say not actually knowing you but the best answer i can give is that he simply did not believe you because his friends probably told him "its too good to be true" or something like that. and he just went with his decision. good luck tho, maybe he will change his mind over time and come back.

I would say that it is impossible for your virginity to be established retrospectively. However, you may want to ask him if that was the reason that he ended your relationship. If it wasn't, then you have no need to prove it anyway.

That is a really hard one. The harder part is that he is a guy and he probably won't listen much. You can try asking him what you can do to prove yourself, or just ignore him. Tell him something that would get his mind off of it. I think a female would be easier to convince in that situation. If there is a person you can put it on that he would believe then you can do that too. Sorry I couldnt give a better answer but that truely is a hard question.

1st of all, it sounds like you really love this guy.
The thing about the bike is totally possible, I'm sure thats happened to many girls before.
Also, there are MANY women into there thirties that are virgina, that are really pretty. And of all people, a GUY should know you can gain A LOT of experience from porn.
Also, I don't know if you know this, but Adriana Lima, the Victoria's secret model, she's a virgin, look how beautiful she is, and she's like what now, 27??
Take it from another girl, just explain it to him, and if he doesn't believe you, then he wasn't worth it.

GOOD LUCK!!!

you shouldn't have to prove to your ex that you were a virgin. as long as you know you were, thats all that matters.

dang! i dk that seems weird